We must stand together and become a better, stronger community - to work towards inclusivity and acceptance.
It is wonderful that we, as a community, are making steps forwards for ourselves to express our unique experiences with attraction, gender, identity, solidarity, and the like. added rainbow flag, blue/green flag, and achillean flag renamed "why these flags?" section to "questions " updated "questions" added o-hemprichii's (Tumblr)/monstericfag's (Twitter) cinthean flag, added "site updates" page, changed navigation buttons to include "site updates" and "a message from me," added hover color to navigation panel added jensensbrina's (Twitter) MLM witchcraft flag, added quarentapes' (Twitter) achillean nb flag, updated cinthean flag section with a Twitter link alongside a Tumblr link Official statement to the home page that the site manager is no longer actively managing the site.Ģ October 2020 - added MLM/NBLM acespec flagġ8 September 2020 - added MLM flag (Twitter,) MLM flag (Twitter,) non-binary gay flag (source unknown,) MLM flag (Twitter,) edited the blue/green gay flag descriptionġ1 September 2020 - added MLM flag (Twitter,) trans gay flag (Twitter,) and MLM flag (Twitter) added "neon/gray/accent gay" to the MLM terms section added a few site tweaksĥ September 2020 - added (Twitter) gay flag and blue mlm flagĢ August 2020 - added asterian, and cinnammoroll's (Twitter) gay flag added "mlm terms" section + accent gay: an in-between of neon and grayġ1 June 2021 - site management transferredĢ June 2021 - site management being transferred, deleted some flags they usually reserve their affection to spaces they are comfortable 's an identity centered around the relaxed energy or reservation of their personality." + gray/grey gay: "gray/grey are mlm are more reserved in their public presentation. they prefer to not mute their presentation of themselves in 's an identity centered around the color of their personality." + neon gay: "neons are mlm who express themselves more through color and presentation. Neon/gray/accent gay - neon and gray gays are terms invented to offer an alternative for mlm identity rather than "twink" and" bear" & "top" and "bottom." I am unsure if they are a labels in and of themselves, but can be used as a label if one wants to. Regarding "blue rose" and "ametrine," the terms are used to describe the flag. "isn't achillean a problematic term?" No, read here for more.ĭue to discourse surrounding achillean, other terms and flags have arisen as synonymous alternatives that MLM/NBLM can use if they would like. (these can be used to refer to anyone who is a man and/or nonbinary, and has an attraction to men and/or nonbinary people or aligns themselves with that experience and community.)Īchillean - anyone who falls under the MLM/NBLM label
NBLM - nonbinary loving men also written as NLM (alternatively MLNB - men-loving nonbinary) Gay - used to describe men/nb who are exclusively attracted to men/nb can also be used as a general umbrella term for LGBT+Ĭinthean - a specific term for gay men/nb. UPDATE: Carrd has a new owner! If you want to suggest a flag or anything else you can dm me on Insta ( creator: are a list of MLM terms, particularly those that are lesser known. Here's a collection of MLM and gay flags made by the community.